Preparing for the end of life
A friend shared with me some important things to think about if you are called to the deathbed of a loved one. Better yet would be to have these discussions with aging parents or friends long before that crisis time arrives. Have you thought through the decisions below?
1) Have you reviewed the meaning of the living will and final wishes regarding the end of life.
2) Do you want to be buried or cremated? Have you purchased a burial plot?
2) Is there a certain funeral home that you would prefer to use for your funeral?
3) Do you want an open or close casket, a viewing or a funeral alone?
3) Have you picked out a casket?
4) Which pastor or elder would you like to officiate at the service? Are there certain things you would like said to the grieving friends who will gather? You can choose now the Scripture passages and music for the service. You can even leave a personal message for those left behind.
5) What would you like to wear for that final viewing?
7) You can choose the words for your memorial or tombstone. You may even want to select and pay for the tombstone ahead of time.
8) Have you written an obituary for yourself? What picture would you like to include?
9) What are the names and contact information for people to be notified in case of your death?
10) What is the location of important papers and financial information.
At my grandmother’s funeral over 20 years ago, I still remember the words she had left to be read by the pastor addressed to her family. She wanted to be sure we knew how to have assurance that we would join her some day in heaven. Those words left a lasting impact on me. I have always intended to write out my own message. Since none of us know the length of our days here on earth, probably I need to address some of the questions above soon – like this weekend!
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